Are you a man, with a drop in your sexual desire?
You’ve seen the ads on TV, you’ve seen the billboards, you’ve seen the ads in magazines telling us that our low sexual drive as man is probably due to low testosterone.
Commonly known as, “low T.”
But is that the only, major reason that men struggle with sexual drive, sexual desire?
For the past 30 years, number one best selling author, counselor and Minister David Essel has been helping millions of men to get their sexual drive back, to reclaim their “MoJoe“, but the challenges aren’t always physical.
Below , David talks about his own struggle with the loss of sexual drive, what the cause was and what he did about it.
“ Several years ago I suffered a major loss in my life. Someone who I thought would be with me until I left this planet, was taken away from me way too early.
I was stunned. Absolutely stunned. If someone would’ve told me a year before this would’ve happened, I never would’ve believed them.
Because the loss was so deep, so intense, my body reacted in the most bizarre way I could ever imagine.
And even though this person I lost had nothing to do with my sexuality, my sexual drive, we were best friends and that’s all… My mind and body completely shut down.
Now because I’ve worked in the health field for 40 years, I knew that even though I was 61 years old, that my sex drive should not just disappear overnight for god sake!
I couldn’t figure it out… I had no clue of what was going on.
And it wasn’t just about getting on Viagra or something like that, I had no interest in sex at all!
So not only did my desire die… My sexual drive died… But I couldn’t even get an erection if someone paid me $1 million. And that’s the truth.
So, in doing some self introspection, I found the answer: I needed to grieve the loss of my friend, I need to grieve the loss of this friendship , I needed to forgive this person, forgive the family, and forgive myself for anything I may have done that created this upheaval.
I spent the next eight months journaling… Writing… Forgiving… Letting go… Releasing… And then loving myself and others once again.
The end result? My sexual drive is back and over the top! My sexual ability to function is the highest it’s been in years!
And this is one of the things I try to help men with all the time… A lack of sexual drive or function may not always be physically related.
Mine was 100% emotional.
If you’re struggling with your own sexual drive or sexual desire definitely check out with your doctor what might be going on.
They will probably recommend a change in diet, exercise, getting rid of alcohol and nicotine which can absolutely destroy our sexual function, and they may recommend something like Viagra which is fine as long as we take away the potential emotional components that could be eliminating your sexual drive and desire.
And then the next thing I did might surprise you: I started to write a book on erotic sexual relationships!
It’s funny, and this makes total common sense of course, but when I lost all of my sexual drive and desire I had no interest in writing a book on sexuality!
I would’ve rather written a book on “the benefits of chewing nails every day”, then put any effort into writing about sex, relationships, or sexuality.
After I reclaimed my sexual identity, I then wrote my just released book “50+ flavors of erotic love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!“, And the timing couldn’t be better.
Since reclaiming my own sexual desire, drive and sexual identity, there are been so many men that I’ve talked to that are sharing their stories with me… And once they clear up the emotional damage, then they can follow the principles in my new book to have the most incredibly deep, loving, communicative and erotic relationship you could ever imagine.
If you’re a woman reading this and your partner who happens to be a guy has lost his sexual drive… If you’re a man reading this and you just have no desire for sex whatsoever… Contact me so we can make sure that if there are any emotional implications to your lack of sexual drive and desire, we take care of that.
I work with people every day from all over the world via phone and Skype, and I’d love to help you. As a man that’s been there? I know how terrifying it is, I know how debilitating it is. And I also know how to fix it.”
David Essel‘s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“
His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like Psychology Today andmarriage.com has verified David as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.
To work with David one on one, or to grab his brand new book on erotic, sexual relationships, please visit https://www.DavidEssel.com
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