Is it possible, without ruffling feathers, to teach your partner about your sexual desires?
Most of us have very thin skins.
So many people take the simplest of comments… Personally.
And when we take everything our partner says to us personally, especially about something as sensitive as intimacy, we end up shutting down, acting out, getting defensive or even getting aggressive.
So is it possible to teach your partner about sexuality without ruffling feathers?
For the past 30 years number one best selling author, counselor minister David Essel has been helping individuals to bridge that gap, to help open their partners minds about getting involved with different parts of intimacy they may have never experienced before.
Below, David gives a few tips that could help you revive your love life.
“ Over the past 30 years I’ve had so many couples come to me with the following situations:
Number one. My partner kisses terribly, is it possible to change them or should I just MoveOn?
Number two. My partner refuses to do anything other than missionary sex, is it possible to get them out of this rut ?
Number three. My partner thinks that having sex once every 3 to 6 weeks is plenty… That’s not enough for me… Should I just leave the relationship?
And of course as you can imagine there’s 1000 more scenarios I’ve been presented with in my role as a counselor and more
And my answer to all the above questions? Is hold on!
There are ways , if you learn them correctly, to present new ideas to your partner about how to kiss, discuss frequency of sex and even the positions we have sex in without destroying your relationship.
Unfortunately, we are not taught this in school! Or church! Or in our homes!
We’re not even taught this via most sex education books, and so we’re left in the dark.
Up until 1997, I was one of the above scenarios. I was always so afraid to talk to my partner about wanting to do something a little differently… Kiss differently… Make love differently… Make love in unique places that we never had… So I shut down.
And when I shut down, I truly shut down.
And then through trial and error, I learned that I could express some new ideas to my partner if I did it in the correct way.
And then I started bringing this technique into my counseling work, and the results were amazing!
I started teaching individuals how to approach their partner who could not kiss effectively… Teaching them how to kiss without embarrassing them.
I worked with another client that had no idea how to get Her Husband out of the rut of “sex every few weeks is fine”, until we did the work together and everything changed.
I got so excited over the past 23 years of working with intimacy issues with couples that I decided to write a new book that is now a top seller, “50+ flavors of erotic love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!”.
And the result has been amazing. I got another email today from a woman asking me to work with her so that she could teach her husband how to kiss, French kiss for more than 10 seconds.
Another client approached me because she hadn’t had sex with her husband in 10 years! And she wasn’t sure how to even approach him after this period of time.
With the techniques that I teach my one on one clients, that you will find many of them in our brand new book , after about 30 days of applying the techniques I gave her, her and her husband we’re having sex on a regular basis.
So whatever you do… Don’t give up! Grab the book, or work with someone like myself in the world of intimacy, so you can turn your monogamous relationship into something incredibly exciting, sensual and erotic all at the same time.
Let me repeat this again: you will not be the first person to read this article that’s in trouble intimately with your partner, don’t be the last by allowing it to destroy your relationship.
David Essel‘s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“
His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like , Psychology Today, and, marriage.com, has also verified him as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.
To grab David‘s new book, or the work with him one on one via phone or Skype on your intimacy issues from anywhere in the world please visit https://www.DavidEssel.com
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