Regressing people to the source of their problem to resolve a current life issue is the prime focus of regression therapy. What got me interested in working by proxy were some remarkable side effects of the regression therapy that I was using. One client had never talked to her mother for 12 years following a major bust up. During therapy she had an intuitive dialogue with the spiritual part of her mother and found completion. Within 24 hours her mother phoned saying she had suddenly felt different about her. After an emotional three hours phone call a loving relationship was re-established.
Another client’s father had a horrific suicide. Several years later the police still had the case open, and the client, her mother and sister still had unresolved emotional issues about the event. During therapy she had an intuitive dialogue with the spiritual parts of her mother, sister, the police and her father. Through this the reasons and events became clear and the client found completion. However, the surprise was within a week the police phoned to say they had closed the case, and her mother and sister phoned to say that they just suddenly felt different about her father and could ‘let go’ of the death.
Perhaps all of these events where simply a coincident, or perhaps the intuitive dialogue had somehow effected the people involved consciously. To understand it further lets examine a case study. The names of the people have been changed.
Anne was a thirty two year old mother who had moved to France with Marie, her two and half years old daughter. Marie was a healthy and happy child who had already started to speak. However, there was one obvious sign of her being shy or insecure. Anne explained, “When an adult looked at her and talked to her, even the most kindly person, her eyes would swell with tears and she would look away.” Things got worse when she went to school some months later. “She chatted with other children in French but not a word to any of the teachers or adults. It appeared she had an unexplainable anxiety talking to adults even though she was growing up in a perfectly loving and happy environment.”
Doing therapy on Marie’s issue was difficult because of her age and because of her inability to talk to a therapist. Her mum agreed to be a proxy client. That meant that the therapist would work with Anne, but the intent was to resolved Marie’s issues remotely by proxy. Anne was regressed into a past life of Marie when she was a girl of about ten years old being nagged by her nanny, and not able to speak to defend herself. Transformation opened up the communication and Anne’s feedback after therapy was, “I realized intuitively it was me who was the nagging nanny. Following the session a lot has changed in my communication with Marie and our relationship has gained another dimension. However, there was a little change in Marie’s social anxiety.”
The next proxy session was a regression into Marie’s past life as an Indian boy at the age of eight who was caught up by a small group of an enemy clan. He was interrogated when he even didn’t understand what they wanted, his tongue was cut out and he was left to die. Women from the same clan came to rescue him and look after him. As an adult he formed his own group of friends who understood him and lived apart from the village. In the transformation there was the opportunity to talk to all the characters from the past life and find forgiveness.
Anne’s comments following the session were, “The proxy sessions truly felt like someone else’s memory and the amazing thing is Marie’s changed so much. It’s so funny because now at school she can't stop talking. Her selective mutism is completely gone. It did require a few weeks but now she is proud, confident and doesn't hesitate at any time to reply or ask what she wants, stands for her rights and speaks for others. She is very witty even in public, jokes and makes other people laugh all the time.
To understand how proxy healing works its necessary to be reminded that as energy beings we hold the memory of unresolved emotions in our energy field with an intuitive link to the other soul involved. And of course the other soul holds the memory of the unresolved emotions too. This is why a lot of incarnations are done by soul groups reincarnating in different roles together attempting to help each other resolve these old issues. Healing while in human form involves understanding the issues at a soul level by both souls and soul retrieval.
In the case of selective autism an energetic link existed between the proxy person and the end client because they were mother and daughter in this life. The communication problem seemed to be a past life that they both experienced. Resolving the past life enabled both souls to return lost soul energy and communication between them improved. It also gave Ann new insights in her mother’s role with Marie. The second past life seemed to explain the talking problem that Marie had. Resolving the past life traumatic memory of having the tongue cut out seemed to clear the intensity of dense energy held by Marie in this life. It still required her a few weeks to be able to talk … after all it was one of her life lessons.
The proxy does not need to be related to the end client, but if they are there is often healing for both. Proxy regression therapy can be for people who would otherwise be contra indicators of therapy. Whether it’s for addiction, severe or terminal illness, mental or personality disorder, the deaf or mute, children, or elderly ready to pass away, it can open a door of help otherwise not possible.
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