Validation’s Labyrinth

      

By Conscious Sanjay

Validation’s Labyrinth   The child feels special In the Mother’s Eye, and The Mother in the child’s eye, Both feel the love, a Validation of self-love, A validation of Self, I am.   The lover is so special In the loved One’s eyes, When validated emotionally, and with hugs & sex, The validation of self-love, Is experienced so complete, I am made so special.   Repetitively, validation glances and responses make me feel special, I get attached to them, to assert my special existence.   I now seek more validation To reassure myself of my specialness, If I don’t get validated, Doubts pervade, prevail, My self-belief ruptures, I don’t like others, I don’t like myself.   And that is how, Somewhere along the way, I lost my self-love in pursuing validations from others.   ConsciousSanjay December 2023 Mysticlivingtoday.com     Validation’s Labyrinth   The child feels special In the Mother’s Eye, and The Mother in the child’s eye, Both feel the love, a Validation of self-love, A validation of Self, I am.   The lover is so special In the loved One’s eyes, When validated emotionally, and with hugs & sex, The validation of self-love, Is experienced so complete, I am made so special.   Repetitively, validation glances and responses make me feel special, I get attached to them, to assert my special existence.   I now seek more validation To reassure myself of my specialness, If I don’t get validated, Doubts pervade, prevail, My self-belief ruptures, I don’t like others, I don’t like myself.   And that is how, Somewhere along the way, I lost my self-love in pursuing validations from others.   ConsciousSanjay December 2023 Mysticlivingtoday.com