Sun Signs Houses & Healing: Build Resilience and Transform Your Life Through Astrology

      

By Carmen Turner Schott, MSW, LISW

April 19-May 20 Taurus is a fixed sign, which means Taureans are strong- willed, determined, and stable. They do not like surprises or the unexpected. Feeling grounded makes them feel safe. Taurus is ruled by the element of earth, and earth signs are known for their practicality, work ethic, and need for structure. At first glance, others see them as easygoing, friendly, and charming— until they get to know them better. Then they quickly realize that Taureans are actually very stubborn and focused on mate- rial success. Taureans are extremely strong-willed individuals who know what they want. They like to do things their own way (which is sometimes the hard way) and think about each step before making decisions. One of their greatest fears is making impulsive decisions when it comes to personal security and their future. Taureans want to be prepared for any challenge, but they need to realize that is an impossible goal because life is always changing. People change and emotions change, and sometimes a Taurus needs to adapt and follow the flow of energy. Things happen in life that are out of everyone’s control. When the unexpected happens, Taureans can have difficulty accepting these new changes. It’s important for a Taurus to learn to embrace change fully. The most important thing for a Taurus to learn is to let go of things they can’t change. Taureans are known to cling tightly to people they care about, situations they want to control, and material possessions they are connected to. Collecting things and accumulating possessions comes naturally, but accumulating too many material things can tie a Taurus down and cause feelings of being stuck. It is crucial to release old patterns of energy and embrace what is new in order to avoid stagnation. Releasing the past with forgiveness creates a lighter feeling in the body. It is not surprising that the second house in a birth chart is ruled by Taurus. The second house is known as the house of money, financial security, self-worth, and emotional comfort. Money is important to Taureans, but not because of the power it has—they feel money and security go hand in hand. Anything that brings lasting security and stability is important, and they like to have control over material things. Taureans fear not having enough or going without, and this can affect their ability to find true happiness. They are constantly planning for the future, thinking about everything that could go wrong, and worrying about challenges that could come their way. Taureans become stronger people when they put value on things that are not monetary or material. Doing things that benefit others strengthens their sense of self-esteem and self-worth. The more a Taurus allows themselves to trust others and the universe, the more confident they will become. This will help them develop the ability to accept change without resisting it. Challenging Attributes of a Taurus Resisting change and becoming rigid in their beliefs—especially if others are forcing them to do something that they are unsure about—is common. An inability to move forward due to fear or feeling unprepared can hold them back. They can be coaxed into making small changes if they respect the person trying to help them. It takes a special person to convince a Taurus that it is safe to step out of their comfort zone. They need friends who can speak in a way that relieves insecurities and anxieties. If a Taurus feels abused or forced to change, strong emotions and a hidden temper can ignite. Taureans are usually slow to anger, but when they feel trapped other people are often shocked to see how upset they can become. In general, Taureans dislike showing negative emotions and try to be peaceful, pleasant, and easygoing. When they do experience stress, this is typically when others see them express strong emotions. Practical and diligent, Taureans find it hard to change their beliefs, values, behaviors, and life path. They are perceived as rigid and inflexible because once they make up their mind, very few people can change it. Positive Attributes of a Taurus One of the most patient signs of the zodiac, Taureans are able to wait, plan, analyze, and make things happen slowly. They are excellent at planning and preparing financially for the unknown; this is one of their greatest strengths. Some people might feel they are lazy or lack initiative because they appear laid-back and carefree. Born with a strong sense of morality and a passion for traditional religion, doing the right thing is important for a Taurus. They are often interested in traveling, higher education, and studying foreign cultures. Success comes through pursuing careers in finance, business, teaching, or even ministry. Taureans are hardworking, predictable, reliable, and extremely resourceful. When they put their mind to something, they will not stop until they achieve it. Nothing can sway them from goals, even though it might take much longer to reach them than other signs. Since Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus, Taureans are known to possess creative and artistic abilities. Excelling in the performing arts is common, and many Taureans are known to have a beautiful singing voice. They might enjoy painting, drawing, or making things with their hands such as pottery and jewelry. Listening to music benefits Taureans because it helps soothe the soul and also helps reduce stress. Comfort and security are crucial for a Taurus’s emotional well-being. Taureans find security in peaceful surroundings. There is nothing more healing for them than enjoying a good meal, wine, and a romantic dinner with someone they love. Having beautiful art and material things surrounding them in their home makes them feel comfortable. Because they are so in touch with their senses, they can be particular about certain things in the environment. Taureans also have high standards and specific likes and dislikes when it comes to food, music, and decorations. It’s common for Taureans to have allergies or sensitivities to light, sounds, textures, or smells. Having soft blankets to snuggle with, comfortable clothes to wear, and flowery essential oils to diffuse brings healing. Relationships with a Taurus Taureans are notorious for asking for advice and seeking other people’s opinions, but they don’t always listen to others or implement their advice. Strong-willed and stubborn at heart, they often think they know best. Problems come up in relationships due to their inability to trust others fully because they often believe they are right. Sometimes those closest to a Taurus feel like they steer away from communication to avoid arguments. Taureans are natural peacemakers and will do anything to avoid conflict. Taureans like making their own decisions because they don’t like the feeling of being rushed. More spontaneous individuals can create irritation because winging things and taking risks is scary for a Taurus. Sometimes others feel they wait too long, often avoiding decision-making, and miss out on important opportunities. Friends and family can become impatient with a Taurus because it may seem like they are never going to make a firm decision. It’s important for others to understand that Taureans are trying to think ahead and prepare for everything that might go wrong. Taurus is one of the most affectionate signs of the zodiac. Taureans need physical affection and enjoy cuddling with those they love. Being ruled by Venus intensifies the individual’s senses, especially physical touch. Taureans are known to be sensual, and touch helps them reduce stress. They crave comfort and feeling cozy, so there is nothing better than snuggling with friends, family, and pets. Sometimes when a Taurus clings to things too long, the universe forces things to be stripped away unexpectedly. Cutting off attachments that are outdated or unhealthy will bring greater healing because a Taurus’s greatest growth happens when they embrace the unexpected and let go. However, the process of loss can be intensely painful and more difficult for Taureans. Be patient and recognize that healing the past can take time and effort. Taurus Tips for Transformation Taureans will transform when they are able to listen to others’ advice. Sometimes they have a hard time accepting or believing what others say. Find Self-Worth Feeling rushed to make decisions makes it harder for a Taurus to take action. They are known to be quiet and hide unless they feel comfortable and safe. Because of this, Taureans do not always stand up for themselves. Repressing unpleasant emotions causes difficulties, but this behavior can be transformed when they learn to express emotions in healthy ways. Taureans may struggle to move forward in life after the unexpected happens. They benefit by learning how to communicate hurt feelings on the spot. If they wait and hold back in the moment, they often regret it. One of the most important lessons for a Taurus to learn is that they shouldn’t dwell on situations that can’t be controlled. They also need to learn to accept that their ideas are just as good as others’. Taurus needs to accept that they are worthy of love and deserve good things in life, which will bring greater self-worth. Listen to Others It’s isolating when a Taurus shuts other people out and refuses to discuss their problems with others. Suffering in silence is unhealthy and causes anxiety, sadness, and other health problems. Opening up and sharing their emotions with loved ones will help a Taurus reduce stress. Taureans have strong opinions, beliefs, and thoughts. They can transform their relationships with others when they actively listen to what people are saying, consider it, and incorporate others’ ideas into their life. Doing this will help a Taurus gain the respect of others. Remembering that they do not have to do everything on their own is key to finding happiness. If a Taurus allows others to help, they will feel a weight lifted off their shoulders and heavy burdens will be released. When a Taurus works with others and compromises, they can achieve much more in life. Allow Change Sometimes Taureans struggle to let go of their need to control the outcome of situations. Accepting change creates more growth, makes a Taurus stronger, and attracts positive relationships. Taureans often stay rooted in where they are instead of embracing where they could be due to a lack of confidence in some areas of life. Embracing change helps a Taurus realize new energy can be motivating while attracting more success. Remembering that they are human and can’t predict every obstacle in life can help them find inner strength. Balance Finances Taureans should have an easier time than most signs with saving money and preparing for the future. Because they are focused on financial matters, this ensures their family will be taken care of. As a lover of nice things, Taureans will find comfort in owning a home, having land, and preparing for retirement. How- ever, transforming the way they spend money and their attitude toward finances is critical in balancing fears of failure. Taureans are notorious for being thrifty and often avoid spending money on anything they feel is impractical. A Taurus’s greatest strength is their ability to focus on needs versus wants, but being very practical can be a burden at times. Taureans tend to focus on the physical pillar and ensure all basic needs are met, such as housing, food, and clothing. This is noble as long as emotional needs are also nourished. We all like to have money in the bank for a rainy day, but Taureans shouldn’t forget to live and enjoy life. This behavior can create a feeling of deprivation and affect happiness or cause difficulties in relationships. It is import- ant to find middle ground; Taureans need flexibility for saving but should also allow spending. Transformation occurs when Taurus steps out of their com- fort zone and allows themselves to splurge once in a while. If spending money stresses them out, they should slowly start to spend it on things they normally would not purchase to get used to these feelings. Using an inborn strength and determination helps push Taurus toward overcoming all of life’s challenges. Taurus Tips for Healing Taureans heal by overcoming stubbornness. Learning to adapt and listen to the thoughts and ideas of others strengthens the healing process. In order to heal personal relationships, it’s important to learn to compromise and allow forgiveness. Accepting that they can be wrong—and admitting it!—helps reduce conflict with others. Taureans can make an extra effort by asking loved ones what they think, feel, and believe. Overcome Stubbornness Taureans heal by being less rigid, stubborn, and close-minded. It’s important for Taureans to learn to take action and avoid waiting too long or they might miss out on great opportunities. Their preconceived notions about how things should be can block communication with others and make others withdraw. Many struggles Taureans face in life are related to resisting change and not listening to the advice of others. Take Action To heal, Taureans need to take action and avoid getting stuck in their own head. Sometimes a Taurus feels incapable of taking action due to overthinking or irritational fears. Holding on to the way they have always done things helps encourage a need for control. But doing things the same way every time blocks growth, so learning to snap out of routines and spice things up can bring relief. No one can ever be fully prepared for unexpected change because its purpose is to ignite growth. Taureans heal by embracing this truth and welcoming it with open arms. When they take action, they will attract more of what they want and release old baggage. Healing comes when they get out of their comfort zone, take some risks, and see what it feels like to step forward with faith. Let Go of the Past Healing happens for Taureans when they allow themselves to let go of the past. This requires releasing relationships, beliefs, and emotions that might have caused pain. Healing cannot enter a Taurus’s life until they stop repressing painful emotions and past memories. Suppressing feelings can have a negative effect on the body and mind. When Taureans recognize the weight that will be lifted off their shoulders once they let go of past worries and negative thoughts and experiences, true healing and growth can happen in their lives. Taureans have to take care of themselves by cutting ties with the past once and for all. They like to reminisce about the good old days and hold on to fond memories of being a child. They are connected to the past, but it can have a vice grip on life to the point of making them incapable of moving forward. The present moment is the only place where Taureans can truly heal. When they are struggling, it is important for a Taurus to remember that time heals all wounds. Practice Self-Care For Taurus, physical illness manifests in the weakest areas of their body, which are the neck, shoulders, and throat. Many suffer from thyroid disease or hormonal imbalances. When they are experiencing stress, it manifests as muscle pain, tension, and spasms in the neck or shoulders. Making time to get a massage or visit a chiropractor is beneficial to help release built-up tension. Taureans are also prone to ear infections, tonsillitis, laryngitis, and weight gain. Losing weight might be difficult to achieve due to stress eating because food brings comfort and relieves unpleasant emotions temporarily. It’s common for Taureans to have unhealthy coping methods involving food, such as overeating when they are stressed. Taureans need to be cautious about overindulgence in desserts and sweets. Developing unhealthy habits that soothe them in the moment should be avoided in the long run because they may cause health problems. Addressing these issues head on helps heal issues surrounding comfort. Creating healthy eating and sleeping habits to counter stress will help a Taurus recharge.   Carmen Turner Schott https://carmenturnerschott.com