Beyond Our Self- Image

By N.T.Hettigei

Worldly satisfaction obscures true happiness.

Everything about 'Beyond Our Self-Image' by N.T. Hettigei is something the readers can relate to; that's what makes it outstanding. I can also testify as a reader that in the few days I spent reading this book and doing the practices, I felt myself getting a deeper revelation of my true self.
This book could save a life!

I sincerely appreciate the author's ability to write such an amazing book. It cannot be done without the first-hand experience of true happiness that he draws us into. Readers might find the book's subtitle, The True Story of a Fictional Character, confusing until they go beyond their self-images.

The truth is that many people have read books like this, and nothing has changed. I had the same idea when I came across this book. Then I realized that this is not just a book that dishes out tips on how to be happy. It's a journey, a process; it's realistic.

Beyond Our Self-Image begins with answering four fundamental questions we pondered about throughout our life journey. Then, the author systematically draws us into three simple steps that we can focus on to bring our more profound sense of inner peace. The well-crafted practices in Beyond Our Self-Image stimulate and give readers a more profound revelation of their true selves and give them a glimpse of true happiness. He calls this inward path to inner peace, where we experience true happiness, which is profound and unwavering.

That facilitates the outward path, which is unique and effortless since its base is your experience of your true self or true happiness. The author declares this is an ever-lasting solution for all life challenges without exception and the key to inner and global peace.

Beyond Our Self-Image is an impeccable book that delves into happiness and challenges our conventional notions of it. The book is presented in four parts, each addressing crucial aspects of self-discovery and genuine happiness–True Happiness.

In the first part, "Am I a Fictional Character?" the author prompts readers to question their self-perception. It explores whether the image one holds of oneself is a fictional or imaginary construct. The aim is to guide individuals to uncover their authentic selves, distinct from the fabricated character they may have adopted.

The second part, "What Is Our True Self?" discusses the idea that, since birth, individuals assume a fictional character influenced by their environment. The section advocates practices that facilitate the discovery of one's true self, emphasizing the disparity between the fictional character and the genuine self.

Moving on, the third part, "What Is There Beyond Self-Image?" aids readers in transcending the confines of their self-created images influenced by external factors. This section encourages the exploration of one's true self beyond the constraints of societal expectations and boundaries.

The final part, "How to Experience Our True Selves?" offers techniques to help individuals unearth their authentic selves, distinct from the fictional character they may have constructed. By nourishing this authentic self through the provided practices, the author asserts that individuals can attain a heightened sense of happiness and fulfilment.

This book deserves to be everyone's lifestyle handbook as it is a step-by-step guide to discovering the real you. It distinguishes the genuine you from the fictional character influenced by external factors that bring chaos to one's life.

The guided steps and index of practices the author provides help readers unearth their authentic selves, leading to a profound sense of happiness.
There are no negative aspects to this masterfully crafted book. The author adeptly explores the chosen topic, drawing from personal experiences of discovering his true self. By following the book's guidance, readers can shed the fictional character shaped by their environment and external influences. The result is a liberating and happier existence. Kudos to the author for creating such a masterpiece.

I like that the author extends individual happiness as the solution to global peace. His research found that various methods and approaches are necessary to cater to people with different temperaments and self-images. Therefore, he sees a discrete group drawn to various religions and spiritual teachings, though the rudimentary process of dwelling in inner peace, referred to as the ancient path in many religious teachings, is the same. It is the only path to go beyond our self-image. However, it is presented differently to attract followers at the surface level; hence, we see different religions, beliefs, and sectors within such groups. He is convinced that the method in his book resembles the direct or ancient path in many spiritual teachings, and therefore, it helps all readers.

In his words, once you dwell in inner peace or wisdom, your kindness is not for good deeds or merits. Your compassion is not relative to others, and empathy does not advertise your good qualities. Also, the degree of love does not depend on the other person; they are effortless, limitless, and valueless.

His analogy of our self-image, like a glass full of ocean water, is impeccable.
"Inner peace is like the ocean; individualities or self-images are glasses filled with ocean water. These glasses are made of different thicknesses as our self-image differs from the degree of our ego. However, water will eventually return to the ocean when the glass breaks. Once that water is mixed with the ocean, you cannot trace it back to the water you had in your glass. You and I have no identity in the ocean of inner peace. Therefore, whatever you do has the same impact on me and vice versa. When we set aside all our differences, including gender, we become our innate selves and share true happiness. When you see the universal nature of your noble heart, your compassion, empathy, and love for yourself and others are impeccably equal.

Therefore, when you interact with others at that deeper level, your eyes get well up, expressing the noble nature of your heart– inner peace. If those teardrops are water in your glass, the salt taste testifies that it came from the same ocean of inner peace."

All that is possible because "Beyond Our Self-image" lets us experience true happiness, free from the innermost friction and clinging that cause all life's challenges.
Undoubtedly, Beyond Our Self-Image allows novice and savvy meditators to transcend inner peace beyond the conceptual self.

In many cases, followers of great teachers think of the present moment as "Now" but do not truly experience it. Now is between the past and future; the present is a relativity concept created by the mind. When you think about the Now, it becomes a perception that exists between the past and future rather than a reality. Hence, you need to go beyond that perception of "Now" to live in the present—bear true happiness and wisdom.

In conclusion, this is one of the best books that everyone should read, regardless of their background or profession. It prompts readers to recognize how they might be living a facade due to external influences. The guidance provided helps in finding the authentic self, transforming life into something meaningful and happier than ever imagined.

Don't hesitate; grab a copy now and embark on the journey to discover the real you and enjoy life to the fullest.

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